Revisiting “Little House” and dress-up

During this global pandemic and our current nation-wide Covid-19 lockdown, we have enjoyed having our son, his wife and our gorgeous two little granddaughters come live with us on the farm.

Emma (5) and Kara (3)  have enjoyed spending time playing with me and I have found myself reliving my early homeschool and parenting days as we played with my daughter’s old toys and dress-up clothes that we took out of storage.

Currently, we are also enjoying watching the “Little House on the Prairies”  DVD series.  These stories are beautifully portrayed and moms and dads are also encouraged by the wonderful values and skills taught by Charles and Caroline Wilder to their children.

My daughter Lara when she was 6 years old

My little grandies, Emma and Kara love wearing their bonnets and calico aprons that I sewed for my three daughters over 15 years ago.  These simple dress-up clothes have served my children for years and they were adapted to suit many themes and eras in the stories I read aloud.

All my girls needed to act out scenes from stories in our living books were a long skirt, an apron and a bonnet.  They have happily played and re-enacted scenes from the Little House books as well as Anne of Green Gables, Little Princess, What Katie Did,  The Secret GardenPollyannaand Jane Austen stories!  I even made my younger daughter boned corsets for their dressing up.

I have shared several posts on encouraging your children’s freedom to play ~

Here are some of my Little House blog posts ~

Give your children something innocent and inspiring to focus on and act out.  They need the freedom to play and be creative.  Read aloud to them and then give them the time to be free to play.

Here’s wishing you and your family safe and happy moments in this unprecedented time.

Blessings, Nadene

A Little House Notebook

We all love the Little House books by Laura Ingalls Wilder!

We use the free Little House lapbooks downloaded from Homeschoolshare.com for each book in the series.

This year my 12-year-old-middle-schooler-who-thinks-she’s-junior-high asked for notebook pages instead of doing a lapbook.

I could see this transition coming.  As she has matured, she readily writes lengthy and detailed narrations in her History notebook pages.

I created simple Little House notebook pages, using the question prompts from the lapbook download instructions.

Both children still cover the same work, but present it differently.

Little House Booklet with duct tape binding for easy filing

Miss K12 asked for a small booklet, so I formated it to A5 (half the size of normal print paper).

I included a new vocabulary page and I made her several blank pages for her to illustrate while I read aloud.

Here’s your free download ~ Little House on Plum Creek A5 Notebook

Little House Booklet inside

I’m delighted with her lovely, detailed narrations …

Little House booklet notebook pages

… and her beautiful drawings.

Little House booklet illustrations

My 9-year-old still loves doing lapbooks.  She feels comfortable with the small size of the minibooks.  She happily fills them and often still needs more space.

Inside the Little House Lapbook

She, too, will prefer writing her narrations in notebook pages soon.

Our combination pages are a good middle ground for this transition. We often paste minibook elements on a notebook page and it adds detail and dimension.

My youngest child still needs my help writing longer narrations.  She starts writing her own narration, and I give her correct spelling prompts when needed.  If she gets bogged down in tiny details, I encourage her to make her write short, clear sentences and make her point.

Quite often she get physically tired of writing (it is really hard work), but her brain is still full of ideas.  Rather than let it become a slog, I play scribe and she enthusiastically dictates her flow of thought.

Lovely.

Satisfying for both of us.

I love my children directing some of their homeschool choices.  It keeps them motivated.  The freedom and individuality are the most wonderful part of a tailor-made education!

How do you allow for preferences and differences in your homeschooling?

Blessings,

Childhood Simplicity “Little House Style”

little house books

I recently came across an interesting article A Child’s Play is a Job Well Done where Katie Kimball describes beautiful old values children had back in Laura Ingalls Wilder’s day.

Here are some of her nuggets!

“A trowel, yard gloves, and a child-sized wheelbarrow instead of a motorized jeep allow our children to work alongside the parents, making outside play an opportunity to learn the value of a job well done, rather than the thrill of pushing yet another button.

The imagination doesn’t need many tools to be inspired. We’re determined not to let our children’s imaginations be confined by toys that structure their play.

Let us also live real lives and teach our children how to do real work, trusting that they, too, were created for more than just pretending.”

Here are my thoughts about Little House inspired childhood simplicity ~

Handmade toys

My daughters marvelled at Laura in Little House in the Big Woods who played with a corn cob doll while Mary had a real rag doll.  They could really appreciate Laura’s joy and delight when she received her first beautiful, handmade doll.

My 11-year-old received a ‘Make Felt Toys’ book along with a box of felt off-cuts for her birthday.  She now makes beautiful felt toys for gifts and for herself.  I made the girls a rag doll family instead of Barbie dolls.  This is one of my girls’ favourite toys.  In The Little House the girls made and played with paper dolls.  We also have a whole range of paper dolls.

For several years now we have made each other Christmas and birthday gifts.  Instead of store-bought presents, we make personal gifts.  My eldest daughter excels at making homemade cleansers, bath salts, facial scrubs and shower gels with just a few ingredients.

Have a no toys birthday party, but learn a deep lesson of service instead.  We made recycled toys for our last birthday party which we donated to a playgroup in a rural town.

Handmade clothes

One of the most touching Little House stories was how Ma made the girls new Sunday dresses using fabric she bought for herself.  What a labour of love!  She sewed at night after everyone was asleep.  In Farmer Boy my girls were amazed that the girls carefully unpicked their dresses, turned them inside out and re-sewed them so that they looked new.apron garden

In this age of cheap, store-bought clothes, that barely last a season, it is easy for modern children to lose appreciation for their clothes.  Do you have a hand-me-down-bag?  We do.  My girls love to search through it at the start of each new season to see what will fit.  I recently turned my husband’s favourite shirt collar over to hide the chaffing and wear and tear on a shirt he cannot bear to part with!

Play with little or ‘nothing’

Laura and Mary, along with all the other children in the Little House stories played happily outside when they had completed their chores.

My younger 2 children can play with absolutely no toys.  They can play anywhere and anytime.  Their games are usually original, creative and imaginative.  Of course, they love dress-up clothes and some toys, but they love to run, sing, play and laugh outside.

My eldest is 15 years old and she keeps herself busy and creatively occupied.  If she is not sewing, then she designs, sketches, reads and writes letters.  (She and her friends send each other full, detailed and beautifully decorated letters!) Encourage your children to start a pen pal friendship.

No one in my home is allowed to say, “I’m bored”.  I tell them that those are words of children who are not creative or original and my cure for boredom is WORK!

Simple Entertainment

The modern child is used to being entertained!  Back in the Little House days, there were no children’s programs or entertainment except the annual village fair and occasional parade.  Visitors were the source of all the news and interest. At night Pa played his fiddle and sang, while Ma darned and the children lay in bed and listened.

Imagine a life with no TV.  Or have you taken the plunge and switched it off?  We have not used our TV for several years, but we do watch DVDs.

Stories are free.  Read books aloud.  Read and enjoy plays, share tales that inspire.

Play family games at least once a week.

Everyone helps around the house

Daily chores and weekly cleaning is part of life. Everyone helps and we all work together to keep the house clean.  Every night someone bakes the bread.  On our farm, there are days when we all stop to help dad with the sheep, or some other farm activity.

I do use a chore chart – something Mrs Wilder did not do!  This is an area of character training.  My children must learn to do their chores first, to do them diligently and with the right attitude.

Katie Kimball says,

“I give my preschooler a real broom, squirt bottle of vinegar water, an old towel and a little bit of instruction, instead of a child’s playset that won’t clean anything.”

She rightly suggests that instead of playing, children roll out real dough and mimic real life.  She promotes productive play.

Farming for food, cooking and baking

Everyone who has ever read Farmer Boy has eaten more!  This book describes mouth-watering, delicious meals, and almost all the farming is for food. The girls helped Ma in the kitchen, while the boys worked with the livestock.

In our modern-day, children have almost no concept that meat is from an animal that had to be slaughtered, or that milk comes warm and frothy from a cow that someone sat milking.  Our modern food is instant, sterile and detached from reality.  Farming is hard work; it is often smelly and dirty, but there is nothing so wonderful than home-grown meals made from scratch!

If your family live in a city or suburb, why not create an urban homestead?  My friend Wendy and her family have transformed their suburban back yard into an incredibly productive homestead!  She writes in her blog of her gardening and growing, and provides wonderful recipes and inspiration for meals, preserves and frugal tips.

We need our children to learn to cook and bake.  They should learn to freeze, pickle and preserve food when it is abundant.  Baking should be a joy and pleasure, but cooking a well-balanced meal from scratch is a wonderful life skill!

Travel simply

I love the descriptions of the slow Wilder family trips to town or to visit friends.  Everyone sat on the wagon; happy, talking, singing, listening and thinking. Ma prepared a simple picnic basket with healthy, simple food; fresh bread, hardboiled eggs, and some cooked meat.Picnic Food

Nowadays, children are buckled in and plugged in and switched on.  Modern cars are fitted with DVD players, children and parents travel, each listening to their own iPods.  When the family stop for meals, it is usually fast food; hit and run.  Others pack snacks which are packaged, refined foods.

We should spend some time the night before cooking and wrapping some healthy alternatives.  A lovely lunch box with fresh sliced carrots and cucumbers, some cherry tomatoes, some meal balls, cheese cubes and eggs will fill the stomach and keep the sugar levels low.  Or make sandwiches and finger food and stop along the way for a leisurely picnic.

Times have changed and sadly we have lost many wonderful values. Let us prayerfully return to a simple and precious lifestyle … Little House style!

What values can you suggest?

Blessings, Nadene